India has been a difficult place for me! Ever since i was a young girl, i have been wanting to travel to a foreign country to assist in some aid efforts, and when my grandson decided to go to india and asked if i wanted to join, i said yes, a difficult decision to make at age 73. Initially the place was very overwhelming, and a lack of communication between driver, headquarters and us made for a very scary first night in delhi, one i'll never forget and perhaps not the best introduction for me to a foreign country. Nevertheless, things looked brighter when we arrived in Jaipur, and were greeted at the bus station by a number of harassing rickshaw drivers, and a very comforting and trusting face of Menju, our co-ordinator. I was very relieved to hear we would be spending our first night at Menju's house, as she sat us down to a cup of chai and discussed how the weeks were going to be played out, for the first time we had some real clarity about what we were doing here. I have lived in a sheltered environment the last few years, so to step so far outside my comfort zone was a huge challenge for me, but Menju made this transition much easier, just doing simple things to make me feel like i'm at home such as making me toast for breakfast, and making the food less spicy for me. Menju is a genuine, and caring person, who rings and visits to see that im okay, not because she has to as her job, but because she genuinely cares for my wellbeing. I question the headquarters of the IFRE in America, perhaps their communication to the volunteer about what to expect when they arrive in India could definitely be improved, but an undoubted highlight for my trip was the hospitality shown to me on arrival, and during my homestay in India. Thank you Menju, you had a big part to play in my decision to stick out the length of my trip, and not just jump on the first plane back home!!
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